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Writer's pictureSherrelle Martin

Space to be a Babe

Updated: Sep 18, 2022

Spring is a beautiful time of year for plants/flowers to blossom. When I think about blossoming I think about something beautiful and new coming about. We can blossom or wither. Also during this period it takes space to grow. You have a choice.

Choosing to blossom somewhere in life in your own space is an awesome thing. How you decide to bloom is a personal choice. It is okay to assess yourself and make adjustments and flow. Embrace who and where you are without comparing yourself or situation to anyone else. You are your unique self. What works for someone else may not be for you. If you have a significant other this may be a great time to let them blossom and not crowd the space of that flower. Flowers need space to grow and so do people. Practice being selfless. Sometimes we can drain others with our selfish needs and desires/outlooks on how we pereceive how situations should be. That is unfair. Sometimes certain events in our lives provoke us to need space to climb up again out of a valley and that is okay too. Some times we can misinterpret someone's need for space as a rejection or avoidance. Healthy relationships are not selfish. They are built off understanding where another is and providing them the time and space to rebuild or clear the air in their lives. Do not think negative or surround yourself with people who help you think negative either. Be kind to yourself and the people needing space to achieve including yourself. God knows the order of the events he has planned in your life.

On that note negativeness can discourage and stunt your growth. It can also lead to anxiety. It is hard sometimes to take it with a grain of salt but negativeness has no power. Just because you may be going through something does not mean that people can read your mind or even know they are affecting you. Nor does it mean to go attack everyone either. That just takes too much energy. It is not always okay to react off emotions.

Blossom and live. Like the seasons life comes full circle. Instead of worrying why something in your life has not bloomed yet enjoy what is and what will be will happen in its own season.


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